So you finally get a meeting with that potential mega-donor you’ve been praying about.
You deeply value the many “widow’s mites” you receive and know God blesses even the smallest gift in greater-than-expected measure.
But you also know the middle-class is shrinking and that nonprofits are increasingly dependent upon large gifts. Besides, it is also an important spiritual discipline for the wealthy to do their share.
So you are finally in the big meeting. You brought your materials and are making your presentation. And then, towards the end, you lay on them the killer closer:
“You know, our entire staff is really committed to this great cause. In fact, everyone sees their work as a ministry, and not a job.”
Then you pause for the response
At this point, you probably have lost, or greatly diminished, the potential gift.
I know. I used to use that pitch too. And I truly believed it with all my heart.
But a large donor once told me that ALL heads of ministries , or their development officers, say the same thing.
Ouch.
The donor’s observation begs two heart-wrenching questions: 1) Does this mean all other ministries are lying, and only your staff is really committed? and 2) if the donor doubts your entire staff sees their job as ministry, does he not begin to wonder how much of the rest of your presentation is baloney?
Here’s the rub. Research confirms the sad fact that 80% of your paid staff–yes, even at your worthwhile nonprofit–is merely taking home a paycheck, just doing their job.
And any one of the 80% would jump in a heartbeat if something better came along.
It’s difficult to swallow because we nonprofit leaders are absolutely sold out to our ministries. Otherwise we wouldn’t be there. We DO see it as a ministry, and not a job.
But there is an irresistible impulse within to project our enthusiasm for the ministry on those around us. The nonprofit’s value is so abundantly clear to us, it is almost impossible to imagine that someone else doesn’t “get it.”
Having said that, sure, probably 20% of your staff really does see their work as ministry, like you. The conundrum is you’ll never know for sure who they are. But they know, and God knows.
Never fail to thank God everyday for the 20%–whoever they are–because they are doing 80% of the work that is powerfully driving the mission of the ministry forward.
So what do you tell that mega-donor?
Inspire them with the vision for the ministry. Provide hard evidence for the results you are seeing. Persuade them that so much more could be accomplished if they would partner with you and your staff to advance the mission.
In so doing, you won’t be able to hide your passion from the donor, or whether it is just a job for you.
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